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Offline floridagal

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Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« on: October 08, 2012, 01:23:25 PM »
I am meeting up with a friend at his friends house for dinner on Thursday.  I don't want to show up empty handed - but don't want to bring wine or flowers....from the little I gather, they will likely have that all taken care of.

I have a loaf pan from Williams Sonoma for making lemon poppy seed bread that makes a pretty impression of lemons on top of the bread.  I thought to bring bread made in that.  That way, it's absolutely for them for later (more of a breakfast food)... and it least shows some thought / time, etc.

Let me know if you like that idea - and a creative way to wrap it - maybe just freezer paper and raffia?
Any other ideas?

Thanks!!
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #1 on: October 08, 2012, 02:23:26 PM »
Sounds great and now i want that pan! :)
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #2 on: October 08, 2012, 02:28:50 PM »
Thx for the reply!




BTW, It's on amazon!
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #3 on: October 08, 2012, 02:31:33 PM »
Sure! I'm sure it will be appreciated. =)

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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #4 on: October 08, 2012, 03:22:47 PM »
I love that idea!

A friend once brought me a cupcake from a fancy bakery as a gift when I hosted a ladies' night dinner.  I thought that was awesome.  :D
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #5 on: October 08, 2012, 03:29:11 PM »
Thanks, RA and caito too.
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #6 on: October 08, 2012, 03:39:34 PM »
as for wrapping, you can just wrap it in clear wrap with a nice ribbon/bow and maybe a nicely presented recipe for lemon loaf tied to it :)
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #7 on: October 08, 2012, 11:09:21 PM »
Cute! And I like the idea of the recipe attached. That way they can also know the ingredients without having to ask (in case they have allergies or something). I want that pan too!
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #8 on: October 09, 2012, 12:19:37 AM »
I think that's a great idea! Maybe you can reiterate that it's meant for later so they won't feel obligated to open it and slice it up for everyone.. a simple, "I thought you two would enjoy this for breakfast tomorrow! I enclosed a recipe so you can make it again."

Someone gave me wine at a gathering at my house and she said, "I thought you and your husband could enjoy this together later." It was perfect, because I didn't have a wine-opener at the time (knowing this, when I saw the wine, I freaked out a little.. I didn't want to offend her by not opening it!) Then when she said that, all the pressure to open it that night had been eased. WHEW!

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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #9 on: October 09, 2012, 06:24:27 AM »
I think that's a great idea! Maybe you can reiterate that it's meant for later so they won't feel obligated to open it and slice it up for everyone.. a simple, "I thought you two would enjoy this for breakfast tomorrow! I enclosed a recipe so you can make it again."

Someone gave me wine at a gathering at my house and she said, "I thought you and your husband could enjoy this together later." It was perfect, because I didn't have a wine-opener at the time (knowing this, when I saw the wine, I freaked out a little.. I didn't want to offend her by not opening it!) Then when she said that, all the pressure to open it that night had been eased. WHEW!

1 to this - every year we go to a Christmas party at a friend's where I know they always have tons of food, but I usually bring something I made for post-party breakfast the next day, like coffee cake or scones. It's a big hit.
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #10 on: October 09, 2012, 10:31:44 AM »
lovely idea!

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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #11 on: October 10, 2012, 10:17:54 PM »
I guess I'm going to be the lone naysayer.  I'm never a happy camper when people show up to my dinner party with food they weren't asked to bring.   :grr:
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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #12 on: October 11, 2012, 06:22:39 AM »
I guess I'm going to be the lone naysayer.  I'm never a happy camper when people show up to my dinner party with food they weren't asked to bring.   :grr:

she isn't expecting them to serve it, just enjoy it later... no conflict

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Re: Invited to dinner...okay to bring this as a hostess gift?
« Reply #13 on: October 17, 2012, 08:54:03 PM »
I would love it!

I love the pan, I love lemons, I love cake.  And bread.

 

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